Andrew McCarthy: Was He Really a Brat?

Andrew McCarthy grew up searching for direction. He was plagued by anxiety, a lack of confidence, and bad grades in school.

Through it all, though, he sensed that he possessed a gift. It surfaced one day when he was a teen-ager, uncharacteristically putting aside his jitters and walking into a rehearsal hall at New York University. During his reading, his instincts for acting bared themselves as an unscripted performance so good that he was accepted to NYU’s acting program, provided he improve his grades and show a seriousness of purpose.

With humor and honesty, the actor and director relates a book full of revealing anecdotes in Brat: An ‘80s Story. As a teen-ager, he broke into movies in Class, with Rob Lowe and Jacqueline Bissett. He leaped to stardom in Pretty in PinkSt. Elmo’s Fire, and the hysterical Weekend at Bernie’s.

He did not consider himself one of the “brat pack” and was not close to many of his fellow actors; his self-doubt showed itself as aloofness. He lost one part after an exceptional audition with John Hughes. But, Hughes misinterpreted McCarthy’s nervous whistling as he left the room as off-putting cockiness. Hughes chose someone else.

McCarthy is an exceptional writer who has also pursued grand adventures that he describes in a captivating book, The Longest Way Home. In Walking With Sam, McCarthy brilliantly relates his walk across Spain with his son on the Camino de Santiago.

Andrew McCarthy has often not been very kind to Andrew McCarthy. But he has overcome alcoholism, performed and directed with distinction, and written several best-selling books. Now in his 60s, I hope he lives out his life with a sense of accomplishment while adding to his volumes of work.

Now Read This: Reasons to Stay Alive by Matt Haig

I have joined enthusiastic readers around the globe in applauding Matt Haig’s books. He creates characters and stories with intriguing themes and compelling stories.

Reasons to Stay Alive is Matt Haig’s very personal story. He opens his heart and his mind as he describes his long battle with depression and anxiety. His book presents important realities about mental illness and overflows with strategies he has tried over the years. He writes that other people’s stories of suffering and survival have comforted him.

Here is a taste of the book’s topics:

Depressives don’t seek happiness; they seek to be free of pain. They feel like no one is going through what they face.

Anxiety added to depression can be a deadly cocktail.

Why do so many more men than women commit suicide?

Mental illness is just as much an illness as cancer, so don’t tell someone who is suffering to “cheer up.”

Travel and exercise can be antidotes to some symptoms.

The world is designed to make us feel like we need more, leading some to become depressed and/or anxious. Happy people are not good for the economy. The more we join the race to acquire stuff, the more it makes life speed by, effectively shortening it.

There are ways to slow down the mind and reduce anxiety. The book includes a list.

A thin skin is an enemy of mental wellness.

It is impossible to think just happy thoughts, but it is possible not to become the bad thoughts if you accept all your thoughts.

If you want to explore related books, Anxiety Relief by Russell Kennedy and Toxic Positivity by Whitney Goodman are two I have reviewed that complement Reasons to Stay Alive. Drop me a note or comment on this post if you have other books to recommend.