Try This: What Really Matters?

If all goes well, Sue and I will soon repeat this finish at Vatican City.

In the end, what really matters most?

What’s your answer? I’ll share mine—at the end. No fair skipping ahead.

As Sue and I prepare for two more distance treks in Europe, we’re nervous. As with each of our previous eight adventures, we wonder what we will discover on the Via Francigena in Italy. It will be our second walking pilgrimage to Rome. Of course, we have done some homework, but all trails hold surprises–weather, the terrain, and a host of other factors beyond our control.

Every walk has been challenging, but we have conquered. Actually, “conquered” may be a stretch, but we celebrated at the end anyway.

This time, after walking through the Tuscan countryside and (hopefully) arriving at Vatican City, we will rest up in York, England before beginning a second distance trail, the Cotswold Way. We have never attempted two trails, back-to-back. But, we figure, if we’re going to all that expense and effort to get to Europe, why not make the most of it? Besides, who can resist British fish and chips? Not me, even after a month of pizza and pasta. After another break in Bath, we will hop a train to Scotland to visit friends from our time living there.

I have written that I find comfort in being uncomfortable. Risk is one of my favorite words. I may not always like them in the moment, but I am passionate about tackling hard tasks, like writing books–and walking hundreds of miles. I thrive on change, which is a given on every distance path.

Since Sue and I arrived in Santiago after traipsing across Spain, I have walked the Camino de Santiago (in spirit) every day. Adventure is my drug. I cannot get enough of it.

That brings me to Hunter S. Thompson.

Who? The American journalist, author, and philosopher. Beneath his controversial lifestyle there was brilliance. This Hunter quote has captivated me for decades and it expresses what really matters most to me.

“Life should not be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside in a cloud of smoke, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming ‘Wow! What a Ride!’ ”

Top Ten Retirement Adventures: No. 1

When I set out to catalogue my top ten retirement adventures, the easiest choice was number one. As great as the other nine adventures have been, the John Muir Trail had them beat. By way more than a mile.

Talk about the improbable. I never imagined I would spend 30 days in California’s Sierra Nevada wilderness, sleeping in a tent. No toilets. No showers. No going back. Another out-of-character feature: I would travel with nine others, giving up my treasured privacy and my need to recharge by myself, or with just Sue.

Through seven distance treks, I have learned important lessons: Take chances, seek discomfort, be vulnerable. None is easy for me.

The John Muir Trail was the hardest adventure of them all. Sure, we were fortunate to have had a mule train and four dedicated packers that eased the physical challenges. I will be forever grateful for their efforts that allowed me to experience a trek I’m not sure I could do on my own. But, still, we walked 246 miles, conquered 100,000 feet of elevation, and answered numerous unexpected obstacles. The mountain passes tested our resolve; one of them was Muir Pass, where we paused at Muir Hut (photo above). Also, I overcame my fear of heights and climbed Mount Whitney.

The people. I will hold close my nine fellow trekkers and four packers for the rest of my life. And I was so fortunate to behold one of Earth’s most spectacular places up close.

Since our JMT in August 2021, I have been reliving my experience through my MacBook Air’s keys. I can’t wait to share the story later this year in the form of my third adventure trekking book.

Sue and I will soon embark on one of our most ambitious journeys. We will walk, but in the form of day hikes as we explore lands afar. Lead Foot (our truck) will lead the way, pulling our third Minnie, aka Mini. For the first time, we plan to take our travel trailer to another country.

We are not done distance trekking, though.

Here’s to the next top ten adventures!