Ageism: Does a Number Define You?

How does ageism affect your life? Do you witness discrimination based on numbers and appearances?

The link will take you to a post in Section Hiker that weighs ageism and its impact on the lives of hikers older than 60. I would love to know what you think.

As a teen-ager, I experienced ageism when I was not taken seriously during some newspaper interviews with famous athletes. But have I felt its effects during preparations and walks on 10 distance paths in seven countries since I turned 60? I am 73 in the above photo with Sue during a break on our recent trek in Italy.

While I consider my response to the article, my feet continue to take me farther than I could have walked as a young man.

I’m Sorry, But Please Stop Apologizing

Are we too judgmental of ourselves and others?

For Michael, a defining moment in his life comes on the Fourth of July when he is just seven years old. The event changes him forever and he will not see his parents for almost two decades.

Skip forward to when Michael is 19, and he walks into a lecture hall for his third college class, filmmaking. He glances at the middle-aged man—his professor—sitting at the table at the front of the room. Michael tries not to stare, but he soon realizes his eyes reveal a path to a new future.

At first glance, Michael is the perfect physical specimen of a young man, but he has learned to conceal what he thinks is his gross imperfection. The man at the table, with whom Michael immediately shares a bond unlike any other, guides Michael toward a new life, one absent of apologies.

What’s wrong with Michael? Or is the correct answer “Nothing!”

In Michael Without Apology, Catherine Ryan Hyde weaves a powerful story that connects us all to Michael. And maybe to the realization that will guide us to stop apologizing—to ourselves and to the world.

This book invites readers to ask themselves, “In the end, shouldn’t we be proud to be ourselves?”